85 Years of Marriage

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By Brian Gosur

Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher
Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher

My mother and father-in-law were married fifty five years. I thought that was a feat that not to many people ever reached. Well there is someone who has got them beat and beats it by a pretty good margin.

Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher will be celebrating their wedding ceremony of 85 years ago on the thirteenth of May 2010. They live in New Bern, North Carolina, and they will hold the worlds record of wedded bliss on that day. Herbert is 104 and Zelmyra is 101 years old.

You have to go all the way back, 200 years ago, to find the previous record holder. That marriage lasted 86 years, but Zelmyra and Herbert will be 86 years this coming May.

On the tenth anniversary of the Fishers marriage, the vacuum cleaner became a household item. On their silver wedding anniversary, Patti Page's song, "Doggie in The Window", was the top song of the day. On their Gold anniversary, that yellow smiley face started to appear everywhere. When they hit the 75 year mark, the top reality show was "Survivor".

Zelmyra describes Herbert as the only boyfriend that she ever had. She says that he has never been mean to her, and it was his sweet disposition that attracted her to him.

Herbert says that they have always led a good life, and never miss church on Sunday, an expression of their reverence toward Almighty God.

The years are catching up to them though. Zelmyra walks with a walker and Herbert has had some loss of hearing, but they still manage a life together.

Herbert loves baseball and is a big fan of the Atlanta Braves. He also enjoys a game of golf now and then.

They both agree, that their long life and years of matrimony, have been attributed to their faith in God, and their strong affectionate family.

What a tribute they both are to the strong character and nature of the family unit, and at the hub of that unit, a strong commitment of love and honor from two people.

My hat is off to you Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher. God bless you both.

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Vladimir Uhri Level 5 Commenter 2 years ago

Helo, this is amazing and blessing. Congratulations to them and sending them my love.

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debugs 2 years ago

Beautiful story. Can you ask them your "blessing" for your hub buddies? I believe in stuff like that. I am not religion however.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks Vladimir my friend. Always good to hear from you.

God bless you

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 2 years ago

Thank you debugs.

I am sure they will enjoy it.

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debugs 2 years ago

Can I Google Buzz this with your hub link? This is one great story!

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 2 years ago

Sure you can debugs.

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debugs 2 years ago

Thanks, see heliumasia dot com :) Today,saw the news of a 91 year old woman killing her 98 year old hubby. What is wrong with the world?

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 2 years ago

If you could find the answer to that one, you would be a rich women indeed.

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tonymac04 2 years ago

This is a wonderfully inspiring story of love. Thanks so much for spreading this news.

Love and peace

Tony

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Ikayci 14 months ago

Thank you for that wonderful and inspiring piece.

Kayci

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Chris Crow 14 months ago

Wow! That is a really long time! Congratulations to them!

B.A.M. 14 months ago

We need to bottle some of 'what you got' and hand it out.

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thedutchman 14 months ago

This hub is amazing. Love is really powerful.Thanks for sharing this.^^

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pearlmacb Level 2 Commenter 14 months ago

Refreshing hub thanks for sharing. Its wonderful to hear of an everlasting-loving marriage for a change. God is good always:-))

Joel 14 months ago

All I can say is, WOW, that is a reeeeeeeeeeeeally long time to be married!!!!!!!!!

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

This is how love and a family are built.

Thank you for your comment Ikayci.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

It's so rare for people to make to ten year let alone 86?

Thanks Chris for your comment.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

I wonder if they ever thought about writing a book? What they have is what more of us need.

Thank you BAM.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

The most powerful force in the universe...love.

Thank you Dutchman.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

Amen! Pearl. Thank you so much for your comment.

God bless.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

That is a long time Joel. Some people are lucky to live that long, let alone be married that long. Contrast that to Elizabeth Taylor, who was married eight times in her, almost eighty years of life. WOW!

Thank you Joel for your comment

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chspublish Level 5 Commenter 14 months ago

Wshat an amazing couple and thanks for giving the information. It's such a joyous thing to see such a celebration of human living.

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MSantana Level 2 Commenter 14 months ago

I just found your this hub. It is beautiful!

Love and good life to them.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

Thank you chspublish. It's definitely a dying art. The ability to stay married to the same person for the rest of your life.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

Yes MSantana. We Wish them and their family well.

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Sunnyglitter Level 3 Commenter 14 months ago

Awww it's great to hear a story like this. It seems like so many people give up on marriage too quickly these days.

Rooskaya 14 months ago

Thanks for such a nice real life story.I wish them health and a long life.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

You are so right Sunny. We have become a society that is selfish and wants instant gratification. We don't want to wait nor do we know the meaning of perseverance.

Thank you for your comment Sunny.

God bless

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 14 months ago

Thank you Rooskaya. I wish them the same as well.

Gail Adams 3 months ago

It is nice to finaly find an artical that give you the full infomation about this couple. The only infomation that I got originaly was just their picture, their age and how many years they was married. It hard for me to believe anything and I'm still a little unsure, But your artical made me believe in love lasting a little more.

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Brian Gosur Hub Author 2 months ago

It's so nice to know that there are still people that believe in Love, as you do Gail.

Thank you for taking the time to leave your comment.

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